So, before Lauren (my partner) and I were together, we were best friends. I was also in love with her, but that's for another blog... So, of course, whenever she was dating someone, I was extra critical of that person.
She dated this one person, we'll call her Michelle... I remember that when I first met Michelle, I immediately disapproved of her. I thought she was weird, and somehow I knew that it wouldn't work out between Lauren and Michelle. Some might attribute this distaste for Michelle to my feelings for Lauren, but I have another theory. Michelle reminded me, in both appearance and mannerism, of one of my ex-girlfriends whose name is Katie. Now, Katie was not only a crazy, annoying, neurotic vegan, but she also dumped me for a girl who lived in Kentucky that she met on Myspace. That being said, I don't remember my time with Katie very fondly.
Because Michelle reminded me so much of Katie, the bitchy vegan, I designated Michelle's probability of being a keeper as very low. In other words, I used the representativeness heuristic, which states that we as social beings tend to overuse similarities between past events and new events in order to make probability judgments (D. Kahneman & A. Tversky, 1972). Because Katie and Michelle shared numerous characteristics, and because Katie was a douche, I assumed that Michelle was a bitchy freak, too.
Let's just say in the end I was right about Michelle...
D. Kahneman & A. Tversky (1972). Subjective probability: A judgment of representativeness. Cognitive Psychology, 3, 430-454.



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